It seems like every time it's looking like everything is under control at home, something gives and suddenly you've got another problem to deal with. If the roof of your condo at 763 Bay is leaking, you can always call in a contractor to fix it for you. But what do you do if it's your kid that's broken? There's no magical toilet training contractor who will get your daughter to finally give up diapers. However, if you're feeling overwhelmed and need some help dealing with a parenting issue, there are places in your community you can turn to for assistance.
Libraries
In the internet age, we often forget about the existence of paper books in the local public library. Don't just sit on the balcony at 110 Bloor with a laptop looking for solutions though, because libraries are fantastic resources, not just for modern books of parenting advice, but also more old school approaches. Search the online catalog by subject (e.g. "toilet training" or "teething") or talk to a librarian. Have a look at the bulletin boards while you're there, too, because informal parenting groups or child care workers often advertise themselves there.
Other Parents
Other parents, particularly ones whose children have already made it through the behavioral phases that are giving you trouble, are an invaluable resource. Call up all your friends and acquaintances and invite them over for tea at your Thornhill real estate so you can pump them for information. Even though you may be reluctant to admit weakness around them, your parents are probably eager to help too, you just have to give them the word. After all - they did raise you and you likely share foibles with your kid.
Medical Professionals
Before you start looking into behavior experts and child psychologists, make sure whatever problem your kid is having isn't related to a medical issue. Bed wetting may not be an emotional reaction to moving to new Brampton real estate, it may be a side effect of a medication or a symptom of a condition. It's always better to check, so make an appointment with your local pediatrician and ask him or her for her thoughts on the issue.
Community Support Groups
New arrivals to a city or country who find themselves raising young children on their own in small Toronto lofts far from family and friends may feel lonely and overwhelmed when problems hit. However, even if you don't speak the language, you don't have to deal with it alone. Community support groups (check the library, YMCA, and community centers for ads) are always open to new members and some of them are geared toward immigrants or people from non-official language groups.
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